SOUTH PASADENA — What the @$%#? This community on the edge of Los Angeles has become a cuss-free zone.
So if you're headed to South Pasadena this week, be sure to turn down the volume on that Snoop Dogg CD, and, if the little old lady from Pasadena cuts you off in traffic, don't even think about flipping her the bird.
Not that police will slap cuffs on you and haul your sorry, er, butt off to jail in light of the proclamation passed Wednesday by the City Council. But you could be shamed into better behavior by the unsettling glares of residents who take their reputation for civility seriously.
"That's one of the purposes of this," Mayor Michael Cacciotti said of his city's proclamation designating the first week of March as No Cussing Week. "It provides us a reminder to be more civil, to elevate the level of discourse."
The proclamation will be in effect until Friday, and then the first week of every March hereafter.
South Pasadena, a tranquil city of tree-shaded cottages at the base of a mountain range eight miles north of downtown Los Angeles, isn't the first to try to rein in potty mouths. Earlier this year, the St. Louis suburb of St. Charles, Mo., proposed banning swearing in bars. Last year, hip-hop mogul Russell Simmons called for an industrywide ban on racially and sexually charged epithets.
But what's different about the latest push to stop saying in public the words that Jane Fonda and Diane Keaton recently discovered we still can't say on television is that it was proposed by a 14-year-old boy.
"My mom and dad always taught me good morals, good values, and not cussing was one of them," said McKay Hatch, the founder of South Pasadena High School's No Cussing Club, during a recent break between study hall and tennis practice.
"I've cussed before, I'm not gonna lie to you," Hatch quickly added. "But I try not to cuss any more."
He was in junior high school when he became fed up with all the blue language around him.
He understood why his friends use foul language: "They just want to fit in like everybody else and they don't know how. They figure if they cuss maybe it's an easy way to do that."
But it wasn't for him.
"I finally told my friends, `I don't cuss.' And I said, `If you want to hang out with me, you don't cuss.'"
It took a couple of years, but enough friends finally came around that Hatch formed a 50-member club, handed out fliers and called the group's first meeting, held June 1.
Nine months later, the No Cussing Club has a Web site, claims 10,000 members and boasts chapters in several states and countries. Hatch considers his greatest achievement, though, to be getting his hometown of 25,000 to become a cuss-free zone.
He hopes to encourage cuss-free zones in other cities to improve the quality of life.
"You have to start with the little things," he said.
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Oh @!$%#, that's no bloody fun is it.
Silly bastards.
Leave it to Calif.
I never cursed before I joined the Navy. Grew up, from the age of 10, working in a store and then a restaurant. Was dealing with the public from an early age and never got the habit. Then.
After 6 years in the service and almost 30 years as a construction worker I find that I cuss freely now. I do try to work on it, except when I'm hurt or scared or mad, then, as my grandpa used to say, "My Irish gets up."
In the summer of 1973 I had been in the Navy about 3 years. I was a submariner, a deep water sailor, not a landlubber with a dixie cup hat. I had to drive my mom on a long trip, about 4 hours. We had been on the road for a while and I suddenly ran onto a very rough patch of road, with no warning sign, making pretty good speed. I had just bought my car and I got Mad! I let loose a long stream of cussing, the basics of which cast aspersions on the line of descent and mental health and capacity of the local city fathers who let this mess go!
My mom backhanded me right in the mouth! Cut my lip on my tooth a little. She said,"I raised you better than to talk like that! If you're going to talk like that just shut up and drive the car."
Now I was a salty dog and a trained military man, I knew just what to do, I said "Yes Ma'am", and I shut up and drove the car! :)
What the @$%#?
AP has officially jumped the shark.
Good for them!
So what if the rest of you profane so-n-so's don't get it....
Wow, and I thought *I* was a dork in high school.
In honor of the new Lenny Bruce quote I use, I'm clipping this to my column. I think it's a good idea. Swearing's generally not a good thing.
What's wrong with swearing? They're only words. Honestly, if the people in this article actually attempted to do something worthwhile, the World might be a better place.
Cursing is invoking the assistance of a spirit to help you inflict suffering. Swearing on the other hand, is invoking, only the witness of a spirit to an statement you wish to make.
John Ruskin
The foolish and wicked practice of profane cursing and swearing is a vice so mean and low that every person of sense and character detests and despises it.
George Washington
Let me go to hell, that's all I ask, and go on cursing them there, and them look down and hear me, that might take some of the shine off their bliss.
Samuel Beckett
It's a vice, and/or a gift, that has been with us as long as language itself.
They're only words.
I'm sure that's not your attitude towards First Amendment / free speech rights...
But having free speech means that we also have a public conversation about how we use it. McKay Hatch took the right approach to that conversation in his "cussing is normal" school culture:
"I finally told my friends, `I don't cuss.' And I said, `If you want to hang out with me, you don't cuss.'"
It took a couple of years, but enough friends finally came around that Hatch formed a 50-member club...
Civil speech and responsible speech are worthy goals (as I think Newsviners would agree), and this kid deserves to be heard.
Sounds like a good idea to me. As my mother always told me, "Swearing shows a lack of vocabulary". I passed this little gem onto my children. AND...They majored in English and garnered EXCELLENT vocabulary skills!!!
Funny you say that - My friends and I are pretty decent at English, yet we all swear like sailors (Sorry, Wheel ;).)
As Ronnie said in #9, they are only words.
Though I haven't heard the "lack of vocabulary" idea, they did teach in a stress management class that swearing's a poor way to manage stress, like getting into a fight or drinking too much.
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