Palin raises hope for parents of disabled kids

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ALPHARETTA — Polishing off his strawberry-banana yogurt, Jacob Moore races to his keyboard with a whoop, picks his way through "Pop Goes the Weasel" and gives his mom a high five. This is the average stuff of childhood, and it has not come easily to the 8-year-old with Down syndrome.

For his mother, Heidi Moore, achieving average "is like climbing Mount Everest." The family has been clambering up with the help of therapists, 15 surgeries, prayer and a tight-knit community of parents whose children live with the disorder.

That network is abuzz with Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin's arrival on the national scene as Republican presidential candidate John McCain's running mate. A little more than four months ago, Palin, 44, gave birth to a son, Trig, with the extra chromosome that causes Down syndrome.

Palin hoisted the sleepy-looking infant into her arms after delivering the biggest speech of her career before cheering delegates at the Republican convention and a television audience of 40 million.

In her address, she had a special message for families with special-needs children: "I pledge to you that if we are elected, you will have a friend and advocate in the White House."

It was an electrifying moment for those parents and their advocates.

Parents of children with Down syndrome say they often feel misunderstood by those who question their decision to have a child with a disability. They said many people fail to realize that medical, educational and legislative advances have dramatically improved life for those born with Down syndrome.

And they hope Palin's example will convince more parents that they, too, can handle the challenge of a Down syndrome child. Up to 90 percent of women who learn their fetus has Down syndrome terminate their pregnancy, studies suggest.

"For the first time, we have a mom in a position like that who's been through the emotions we've been through," said Michelle McCarthy of Ainsworth, Iowa. One of her 8-year-old twins has Down syndrome.

Palin did not say what her White House advocacy would mean.

During her few years as governor, she vetoed $275,000 for Alaska's Special Olympics — half the amount being sought. Money for a program that helps rural school districts provide special education has remained flat. But she supported another legislative proposal to boost spending for students with special needs by some 175 percent in 2011.

Disability advocates said she hasn't been a strong voice for their cause — at least not yet.

"It hasn't been on her radar screen," David Fleurant, executive director of the Disability Law Center of Alaska.

Still, many say her value if elected vice president could be less about laws or dollars and more about raising awareness — simply by raising her son in the public eye.

David Tolleson, executive director of the National Down Syndrome Congress, said it was invaluable for people to see the Palins at the convention as "a happy, normal family passing the baby around."

Tolleson said that might resonate with parents who agonize over what to do when they receive a prenatal Down syndrome diagnosis. Advocates worry even more pregnancies might be aborted because of the rise of prenatal testing.

Testing for Down syndrome was once offered routinely only to women age 35 and older. But the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology recommended in 2007 that doctors begin to offer the screening — now done through a blood test rather than a riskier amniocentesis — to all prospective mothers regardless of age.

Women who might not have learned until they gave birth that their child had Down syndrome now can find out in time to choose an abortion early in the pregnancy.

Some 5,500 infants are born with Down syndrome every year, the government says, and an estimated 350,000 Americans live with it. Down syndrome is one of the most common genetic birth defects, affecting roughly one in 800 births. Its severity varies.

Advocates say doctors often don't provide good information to scared, pregnant women who receive a prenatal diagnosis and are too quick to recommend abortion. Congress has come up with money to improve the quality of information for health professionals.

Down syndrome is characterized by mental retardation of varying degrees, and distinct physical features. Babies tend to be limp and quiet. They can have a multitude of other problems: Nearly half will have a heart defect, some serious enough to require surgery soon after birth. About one in 10 are born with intestinal abnormalities that can require surgery.

They also are at increased risk of thyroid problems, hearing loss, vision problems and leukemia. Many develop Alzheimer's-like symptoms starting in their 30s. However, better treatments for some of these conditions have increased the life expectancy of people with Down syndrome to about 55.

Once institutionalized at birth, children with the condition now have access to an array of home therapies, and public schools are legally bound to accommodate them.

Gail Williamson, executive director of the Down Syndrome Association of Los Angeles, said she remembers stares and whispers when her son Blair, now 29, was a child.

She credits the late 1980s television show "Life Goes On," which featured a character with Down syndrome, with helping to change attitudes. She said Palin's visibility could have a similar effect with a new generation.

Moore agrees.

A former oil industry executive who now works as an advocate on disability issues from her suburban Atlanta home, Moore acknowledges Jacob's surgeries and therapies have drained their bank account, even with help from Medicaid.

But she'd never make another choice.

"Look at my son," she said. "He's reading at an age-appropriate grade level. He's writing his name. He's playing piano," Moore said. "Will he be an astronaut? No. But maybe he'll be a teacher's assistant ... or a musician."

"My hope for him is to be a healthy, happy, productive, taxpaying member of society."

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On The Net:

National Down Syndrome Society: http://www.ndss.org

National Down Syndrome Congress: http://www.ndsccenter.org

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{"commentId":2814325,"authorDomain":"arenee"}

yea i wouldnt be so quick to trust this lady. she did little reform in alaska when it comes to the disabled. looking at her track record i woulnt trust hr with a knife. sounds good...but can the American people depend on her?

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Reply#1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 4:22 AM EDT
{"commentId":2815398,"authorDomain":"mschwartz4"}

No the American People cannot count on palin...her records shows that she cut funding for disabled kids.. more of the jerry farwell spin...

fake politicis=bush/chaney/mccain/palin

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#1.1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:13 AM EDT
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{"commentId":2814340,"authorDomain":"vickiwalch"}

When my child was diagnosed with a disability I made the choice to stay home with her. I took a step back in my career goals. I was lucky to have the option to choose. Many parents don't. I find it hard to relate to a woman like Palin. Her press agent makes her out to be the "mother of the year" but she wasn't home to try to keep her daughter Bristol out of harm's way and now she is campaigning for a job that will keep her occupied and far away from her special needs son. Both her daughter and her son need her time now. She can't get those years back. It seems to me that ambition has clouded her mind. I don't respect her choice in this matter.

In addition, she hasn't been an advocate for the disabled in her past voting history but then again, I suppose since it is now important to her she might flip flop in her attitude.

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Reply#2 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 4:27 AM EDT
{"commentId":2814401,"authorDomain":"ktdid"}

justme

I agree with you wholeheartedly. The US doesn't need Sarah Palin but her kids do. Hard to believe that a candidate running with a candidate who would privitize medical insurance has given any thought to the actual needs and expenses incurred by those with special needs kids or anyone else for that matter.

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#2.1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 4:59 AM EDT
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{"commentId":2814584,"authorDomain":"travelbizcash"}

Please don't politicize children with special needs Palin.

I admire all Mom's and Dad's who nurture and are there for those special precious children with Downs and any children that are born with special needs. from talking with friends who have had children with Down's these children give back love and should not be emotionally bankrupted by a Mom who couldn't possibly be there for them because of the demanding job of Vice President of the United States of America.

Instead of proclaiming how she will be the "advocate" for the families if voted into the WH maybe she should explain that what she said actually equates to pandering for votes from those families.

There have been many discussions about working Mom's and Dad's and the differences in the raising of their families, even in this day and age Psychologists will tell you that there's no replacing a Mom's love and attention.

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Reply#3 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 6:42 AM EDT
{"commentId":2815414,"authorDomain":"mschwartz4"}

palin/mccain/bush/chaney wiil spin any story to distort the facts....American better wake up or we will all pay the price again.....

say no to 4 more years of shame=mccain/chaney/bush/palin=farwell/roberts

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#3.1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:15 AM EDT
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{"commentId":2814631,"authorDomain":"szyqtl"}

I'm a mother of 2 special needs boys. SARAH PALIN/John McCain is NO friend of mine or to the plight of families like ours. Don't believe the hype! If they didn't care about the problems and concerns before being elected (in theirs votes/actions) they won't care after being elected. The last 8 years have been horrible for families like ours. How can anyone, especially WOMEN vote for this ticket?! They will only take care of their own over the next four years, so that the base will push Palin through in 2012. Palin's sister has a special needs child and she didn't care then. She doesn't have to care because she has more than enough means to deal with the issues. I implore anyone willing to cast their precious vote, to the McSame/Palin ticket, to look at the hard facts of the candidate's FUTURE PLANS for our country, and their experience (meaning good & bad judgements) that will actually affect your life. The choice seems quite clear. But then again I thought it was quite clear in 00 & 04 and the corruption was ALLOWED to happen. Not to mention more American citizens, Iraqi civilians, and our service members have died on this President's watch then any other time in my lifetime. Every aspect of my life has been turned upside down by this pompus administration! And to think, I voted for the better candidates and still have to suffer at the ignorance of other's uneducated votes.

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Reply#4 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 7:00 AM EDT
{"commentId":2815433,"authorDomain":"mschwartz4"}

well said szyqtl!!!

take your story to the local papers use the facts not the fiction of the sarah spin....

Good luck, you sound like a responsible mom. hug those boys for me!

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#4.1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:18 AM EDT
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{"commentId":2815419,"authorDomain":"vbplhamilton"}

I'm glad that some people are not buying into this. However, there are so many people out there that are taking this woman at face value, which is all hype right now. They are not following this election or paying any attention to the policies that each side are presenting. Another words, they are not educating themselves on the values, past performances, etc. of these people. My god, people are saying that Obama is attacking this woman, but what did she do to him? In her acceptance speech (of which Bushes speech writer wrote for her to reciet word for word) absolutely tore him a new ass#$%^, and now the critics are saying he shouldn't fight back with the REAL ISSUES, or questioning her statements of which she has done a big flip flop? Because what she is saying IS NOT what she did as Mayor or Gov. This whole thing has me so worried. We DO NOT need McCain/Palin in the White House.

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Reply#5 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:16 AM EDT
{"commentId":2815723,"authorDomain":"okiedem"}

I am also a mother of a special needs child (now adult)...who still lives with us at home and is the joy of our lives.

Sarah Palin has no experience with special needs...just having a child born with Down's Syndrome 4 months ago does not make you an expert...lets face it...she may be more interested now that the issue is touching her family, but she has NOT navigated the waters of advocating for a person with disabilities...she has no idea...and will do more harm than good by making people with disabilities the newest 'cause', or something cute to do so you feel good about yourself...get real...People with disabilities are PEOPLE and have strengths and weaknesses and deserve access, education, health care... The McCain/Palin ticket has said NOTHING about these issues and probably never will...

This is pure pandering...and exploiting her baby for political gains...

Shameful.

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Reply#6 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 9:43 AM EDT
{"commentId":2819873,"authorDomain":"edwarddanteze"}

"Sarah Palin has no experience with special needs...just having a child born with Down's Syndrome 4 months ago does not make you an expert.."

Does Obama Or biden have a child with downs?

Did obama not let his children be interviewed? I wonder why he let that happen?

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    #6.1 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 1:58 PM EDT
    {"commentId":2828216,"authorDomain":"ktdid"}

    roadkill

    This seed is about Palin and whether she will be supportive of parents with DS or special needs kids.

    No, Biden didn't have a child with DS; what he experienced was the loss of his wife and daughter in an accident and raising 2 little boys alone for a number of years while a US Senator. Want to make a rude comment about that?

    Obama's children were with their parents and asked a few questions. Was he trying to garner support from people with 2 little girls or letting them have their way on the oldest girl's birthday? Did you read the interview?

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      #6.2 - Mon Sep 8, 2008 7:35 PM EDT
      {"commentId":2881717,"authorDomain":"edwarddanteze"}

      My point is to (LW 497239), Is that it is ludicrous to insinuate that palin will not be empathic or supportive towards children with special needs. She has a 4 month child with DS and I promise you she knows a thing or two about the disease and is more aware of its impact along with its demanding associations and care than she may have or not have been 4 month ago. She is living it right now. Obama and biden both were very blessed in that their children were not born with D.S. and we all pray that they continue to grow and stay vibrant. So who would be more likely to be empathic, possess first hand knowledge? As for obamas' children interview, was also an publicity motivated, propagandizing for political gain, to show the father in Obama. I respect any man that supports and takes the time to actively participate in his childs' life even if I do not see eye to eye with him. Its just identity politics. Not stating that it is wrong or right, just that both parties participate and engage these type of politics.

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        #6.3 - Thu Sep 11, 2008 1:53 PM EDT
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