— “My weight disturbs the way I feel in my own skin,” says 43-year-old Ada Hyde of New York City. “I can feel it when I bend over at the gym. I hate the sensation of this extra stuff on me."
If Hyde was 20 or 30 pounds above her goal weight, her anxiety might seem understandable. However, her anguish is coming from a mere extra three pounds she sees when she steps on the scale.
For her, and other dieters like her, those three pounds might as well be 30.
When a size 4 fashion model Coco Rocha is considered too fat to walk the runway, it’s not surprising that there are many people, particularly women, who feel tormented about being a few pounds “overweight.” Their poor self-image is caused by a weight problem that’s imperceptible to anyone else. Even if they wake up feeling flat-bellied and svelte, when they step on a bathroom scale, the extra pound or two they see throws them into a funk for the rest of the day.
Minor weight fluctuations are natural. An extra pound could come from the 2 tablespoons of teriyaki sauce (1,400 milligrams of sodium) poured over sushi or 2 pickles (1,700 milligrams of sodium) consumed with lunch the previous day. Salt acts like a magnet to water, creating fluid weight gain, not fat weight gain. For women, weight can also fluctuate during the month due to puffy menstrual pounds. Some people gain weight because of fluid retention related to menopause, arthritis, thyroid disease, allergic reactions or the medications they take.
Studies suggest a daily weigh-in can help keep off any weight you've lost. To avoid becoming too obsessed with the numbers, weigh on Friday and Mondays only. Weighing at the book-ends of the weekend can help prevent weekend diet-busters. If you weigh on a Friday and your weight is lower than expected, you may eat a little more liberally on the weekend. If Friday's number is higher than preferred, you're less likely to overdo it over the next two days. And if you have to weigh-in on Monday, you're also less likely to overeat over the weekend.
Also, weigh yourself at the same time of day, preferably without clothes, on the same scale, and with the scale in the same place.
Besides, it's not only the pounds that count. People can have a normal body-mass index and still be fat, researchers at the Mayo Clinic have found. This ‘inner fat’, known as visceral fat, is fat that surrounds your organs and is more dangerous for your health than external, or exogenous, fat.
There are methods to test your percentage of body fat through processes like underwater weighing or skin-fold caliper measurements, which can predict health risk (men with a body fat measurement over 23.2 percent of body fat, and women with 33.3 percent of body fat are at greater risk).
While those extra few pounds may really only matter to you, there are some easy ways to keep them from adding up. Follow these tips to feel more comfortable in your clothes:
Try to be realistic about keeping within a certain weight range — about 5 pounds above and below your comfort zone — instead of dwelling on a specific number on the scale. Maintaining the exact weight can be difficult day after day. “Ideal” weight is the weight at which you look and feel the best, both physically and emotionally, even if it’s not a perfect number on your scale.